The last three months of 2005 were a real rollercoaster ride, complete with all the loops and rolls but without the thrills. The life savings had dwindled to piggy-bank proportions and the revenue from my website had still not broken a dollar a day.
Two miracles happened. At least that’s what they seemed like at the time. Two different educators in Japan gave me leads to possible jobs at universities. I was interviewed and offered both jobs. The downside was that both jobs were hundreds of miles from my home. There was no way I was going to live apart from my family, which meant we would have to sell our house and relocate.
Then another idea came along. If I was to sell house and home and move on, moving overseas became a viable option. I had always been interested in working in the Middle East. Many years earlier I looked at jobs in Saudi Arabia. I didn’t have a Master’s degree then so dropped the idea.
The very first search I did on Google came up with a college in the UAE that was looking for teachers. This was in November; the positions started in January. In my very best typewriting, I completed the application forms. I got and passed a video interview and then waited for the screening process to take its course.
In the middle of December I got the e-mail that said, “You’ve got the job. You start in four weeks.” After months of thinking I’d be bankrupt and jobless, I suddenly had three job offers. As much as we dearly loved Japan, we decided on a new adventure.
We had four weeks to empty our house and tie up the hundreds of loose ends. It’s amazing how much stuff you accumulate when you buy a house.
I lived in a quiet village in a valley. The road in front of my house had recently been widened to take two-way traffic. Sometimes there were two cars visible on it at the same time. This lack of traffic didn’t bode too well for another bright idea I had – a garage sale. It was the only way to get rid of everything we owned. We couldn’t afford to ship it overseas and desperately needed all the funds we could get.
Garage sales are a very unusual event in Japan. My two-metre roadside sign created sufficient bemusement for a fair percentage of the valley traffic to stop, reverse and then find out what this English man was doing. It took me two weeks to sell almost everything in the house.
- I gave away all my books.
- I sold my treasured 450 albums for peanuts.
- My children watched other children take away their toys.
- We uprooted and sold the plants and trees we had taken such pride in growing in our garden.
- I gave away my kayak.
- I parted with my chainsaw.
- We put our house up for sale at a price far less than what we still owed on it.
The morning we left Japan we got rid of the last items we owned that weren’t in out four suitcases. The futons we slept on the previous night, the heater, and the kettle and cups we would use for a last cup of coffee.
I tried hard, but couldn’t stop the tears flowing as I left my beloved house and valley. I desperately wanted to stay.
Moving on three years and eleven months.
Coming to the UAE was one of the best decisions of my life. Life is good. I’ve learnt so much here. I work with amazing teachers. My students are awesome. Life savings are now something to raise a small smile.
Both risks were worth it.
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Tags: garage sale, miracles, risks, rollercoaster, smiling, UAE
Hi Sean, I almost cried reading about your kids watching their toys being taken away.
It’d be great if you could do a post about the life in the UEA, the things that you like and the surprises you had when you came over.
all the best,
Ivan – Salvador, Brazil
Sean,
I thoroughly enjoy reading your posts. I still want to know what you traded the moped for! I can just imagine the reactions of those in your village to a garage sale! LOL! I am inspired by your story and sacrifice. Our life paths are filled with opportunities to take the road less traveled and you, my friend, have definitely illustrated this!
Hi Ivan,
Yes, I almost cried every time another toy went in the garage sale. Parents get quite emotionally attached to their children’s playthings. My son was three then and has vague recollections; my daughter (then 18 months) remembers nothing.
I will do a post about teaching in the UAE one day.
Hi Shelly,
Thank you for your comment. The garage sale was quite an event in the village. I had neighbours I had only really said hello to bringing me hot food to keep me warm – It was in the middle of winter, and it snowed. They also did a great job of buying lots of stuff. A lot of them gathered outside my house the morning we left to say goodbye and wish us well. That only added to the huge lump in my throat.
And as for the little blue moped – I sold it to one of the neighbours. It went to a good home.
So glad things worked out.
I’ve had a couple of similar experiences of uprooting and getting rid of stuff in a hurry. Can’t remember how we managed to persuade anyone to buy the washing machine when we left Japan, but I remember it was a headache. Can well understand how the kids toys must have tugged your heart strings too.
But there’s also a sort of freedom you get when stuff goes. And it’s easier to find things when there isn’t much too look through, of course.
Look forward to reading more.
Hi Vicki
The good thing about getting rid of 700 CDs and albums is that I have replaced most of them with digital copies – It’s much easier to store 6,000 songs in my pocket than carting around boxes of really heavy vinyl. I must now do the same with photos.
I’m also amazed at how much we got rid of, and by what people bought.
Dear Sean,
Oh my, that sounds very rough. How did your children adapt?
Having moved 17 times in the last 25 years, I’ve also had to part with tons of things, including my record, book and furniture collections. Nothing I have bought in the last 10 years or so did not go through the scrutiny of “and will you take this with you when you next move?” Like you, I’ve rebought the best albums and am simply amazed that most of them all fit on my iPhone
17 times in 25 years! I can’t imagine – that’s like long-term backpacking. Hope you’re settled now ??!?!?